Shibari Instructor & Kink Educator
in Copenhagen
I'm Beatrice, aka Red Lily. A queer feminist Shibari artist and intimacy educator with over 15 years of experience teaching and performing across Europe.
Shibari
privates
Ready to explore the intimate art of Shibari in a space that celebrates your identity? Whether you're curious about tying or want to experience the beauty of being tied, these private sessions are all about you—your desires, your body, and your boundaries. Shibari is about trust, connection, and deep self-expression, and I’m here to guide you through every knot with care and respect.
Reserve your session now and step into a powerful, affirming experience of rope, trust, and liberation!
Join an unforgettable experience delving into the world of Shibari, the Japanese art of connecting with ropes, led by Red Lily - one of the industry's leading figures with over a decade of teaching and performing worldwide.
Session Pricing
Sexology & Relational Therapy
1 hour — 800 DKK
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Shibari & Kink
Minimum booking: 2 hours
2 hours — 1,600 DKK
Intensives
For those who wish to go deeper, I offer 4-hour and 8-hour intensives in rope and kink, with the option to integrate sexology or relational therapy if relevant.
4 hours — 3,000 DKK
8 hours — 5,800 DKK
If you are looking for something more specific ,such as a 2-day rope intensive or a more personalised format ,you are welcome to write to me.
A limited number of reduced-price sessions are available for low-income clients or people in financial difficulty.
If this is relevant for you, please feel free to reach out privately.
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FAQs
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A private session is more experiential and embodied, during a session you will be tied by me, while a private lesson is more teaching-focused, and you will tie yourself or a partner.
Both are tailored to your level, needs, boundaries, and curiosity , and can include elements of learning, communication, body awareness, rope, and connection.
A session or lesson may include:introduction to rope,
tying and/or being tied,
rope handling and technique,
consent and communication,
body awareness,
emotional pacing,
intimacy and connection,
aftercare and reflection.
Everything is adapted to your experience level and intentions.
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No. Private Shibari sessions and lessons are open to complete beginners as well as experienced practitioners.
You do not need to know anything about rope before you come.
Private work is often a great place to begin if you:are new to rope,
feel shy or nervous,
want a slower pace,
prefer one-to-one support,
or want a more personal learning space than a group setting.
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You are welcome to come alone or with a partner / partners.
Sessions and lessons can be shaped for:
individual exploration,
partnered learning,
intimacy and connection,
communication and relational work.
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No. These sessions are not sexual.
They do not include:
genital touch,
direct sexual stimulation,
sexual acts,
or erotic services.
Shibari can still be intimate, emotional, vulnerable, sensual, relational, or deeply connecting — but the work is held within clear professional and consent-based boundaries.
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Yes. Rope can open space for:
trust,
vulnerability,
embodiment,
nervous system regulation,
intimacy,
power dynamics,
communication,
and deeper relational awareness.
This does not make the space sexual — but it can make it meaningful, moving, and transformative.
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Yes. Both private sessions and private lessons can be combined with relational and/or sexological consultation if relevant to your needs.
This can be especially supportive if you want to explore topics such as:
intimacy,
communication,
desire,
boundaries,
relational dynamics,
vulnerability,
body awareness,
or trust.
If this is something you are interested in, you are welcome to mention it when booking.
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Yes. This is an identity-affirming and non-judgmental space.
All genders, bodies, orientations, and relationship structures are welcome.
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You can book by getting in touch through the booking / contact form.
If you already know whether you are looking for:
a private session,
a private lesson,
or a combined rope + consultation format,
you are welcome to mention that in your inquiry.
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